I have often said the words “I hate people.”
I’ll admit that I don’t actually hate mankind, but
when I frequently hear people say and do dumb things, it has become my
knee-jerk response.
When unintelligent utterances come about, I often wonder if
someone could really be that clueless
and I rationalize it by disliking the masses. Yet maybe there is some sort of
social psychology at work behind absurdity.
I challenged this ideal greatly a few days ago, when sitting in the HUB. I was positioned with my laptop, doing work in between my classes, where at the end of the table sat four girls. They were talking rapidly and when the one girl got up to leave, she uttered one of the most ill conceived sentences I have ever heard:
I challenged this ideal greatly a few days ago, when sitting in the HUB. I was positioned with my laptop, doing work in between my classes, where at the end of the table sat four girls. They were talking rapidly and when the one girl got up to leave, she uttered one of the most ill conceived sentences I have ever heard:
“I think I’m going to take the Blue Loop to the White
Building.”
I froze (keep in mind we were at the HUB, which is about a 30
second walk to the White Building.) I sat wide-eyed at what I just heard and waited
for her friends to verbally attack the comment. I didn’t have to wait long. Her
friends laughed endlessly and pointed out the flaws in her comment. The girl
then giggled and shrugged it off. This definitely happened a lot. She pretended
that she didn’t realize her own idiocy, and when she left her friends went
on to talk about how she says things of this nature often.
All people have inherited intellect and because of this I
remain unconvinced of this girl’s actual lack of knowledge. True, we all have
slips in common sense, but I dissected her thought process enough to realize she
thought far enough ahead to contemplate taking the bus. She obviously thought
about her next location. She had to
have known. From this, I believe she was acting a part; she was playing a role.
So why do people “dumb themselves down?” To me, playing dumb
makes you inferior; it in turn gives the others in conversation the upper hand,
as they believe to have more knowledge than you. What’s the benefit?
Studies suggest that woman often act dumber when with their
spouse to reflect on society’s ideal that, at least on certain issues, the
husband’s superiority should not be tested. With that, studies also show that
men tend to dumb themselves down more often than women in social situations.
Men tend to “play dumb” in situations with co-workers and bosses.
This tactic can alternatively be done as a defense mechanism.
Often people will avoid showing their intelligence in situations of highly
structured and competition stature, where mid-level personal are motivated to
avoid annoying others in order to improve their future there. It is also suggested
that people will dumb themselves down to avoid responsibility.
I question, is it easier to remain the simple-minded one
than challenge the minds of others?
If we position ourselves as dimwitted, do we in turn lessen our responsibility?
If we position ourselves as dimwitted, do we in turn lessen our responsibility?
With this in mind, maybe “being dumb” is a lot less dumb
than we think.
I really struggle with the whole "playing dumb" stuff. Well, I don't do it, but I just can't stand when women act dumb around guys they like. It's the most degrading form of flirting. What's worse is that usually I can't tell until after the event that the woman was flirting.
ReplyDeleteThe first thing I realized is that the bus stop is pass the white building.
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